Columbus Day, Indigenous Remembrance Day

My Indigenous and Native American ancestors are finally getting some respect. Columbus Day is getting re-branded. I know that my ancestors would be thrilled to see more American cities recognize the truth: That Columbus did not ‘discover’ America. Thankfully, some cities, like Seattle, are now giving the Columbus Day holiday a Native flavor.

“This year’s Columbus Day holiday will have a slightly different, more Native flavor in the city of Seattle. Thanks to a unanimous vote this summer by the city council, the federal holiday will now be known by a different name: Indigenous Peoples’ Day. The name change comes after activists pushed for a day to honor indigenous people instead of Christopher Columbus, the most recognizable figure linked to European contact with the Americas.” For the complete story, click here.

I hope one day New York City will see the light. There’s certainly plenty support in this town.

Many truths were heard loud and clear recently, at a rally in New York City near the landmark statue of Christopher Columbus at Columbus Circle. Native Americans, Indigenous groups, regular New Yorkers and tourists participated in a Pow Wow to focus attention on the “grand theft, genocide, racism, torture, and maiming of Indigenous people,” by Columbus and other American, Spanish, and British colonizers.

The New York gathering included: Ecuadoran community activists, Sharakapk Earth Keepers, Inwoodearthkeepers@gmail.com, Biblioteca Indigenamovil (mobileindigenouslibrary.webs.com) Chief Plenty Coups, Apsaalooke, Crow, Indigenous Outreach Project, Citizens Committee for New York City, Garifuna Coalition (www.garifunacoalition.org), Colectivo Popol VujItinerante, and more.

Would you swap Columbus Day for Indigenous Remembrance Day?

‘Promises Kept’ a Toolkit for Raising Black Boys

Promises Kept-Raising Black Boys to Succeed in School and In Life is the companion book to the documentary American Promise Project that explores black male achievement gaps. When two black boys get accepted to New York’s prestigious Dalton School, we witness the promises and problems of thriving and surviving in an elite school. It became very clear that no matter how wealthy or poor you are, if you have a black son, you will see gaps in almost every area of his life from school test scores to his emotional, social and physical wellbeing. This book is essentially a toolkit on how to raise your black boys for success with provocative chapters like: “You Brought Him into this World, Don’t Let Other folks Take Him Out: How to Discipline Our Sons for Best Results” and “Protect Him From Time Bandits: How to Teach Our Sons to Manage Their Time.”

Why do achievement gaps happen to our boys? These are some of the questions asked and answered by the film and book. Written and produced by an Ivy League-educated black parent team Joe Brewster, MD (Harvard), and Michele Stephenson (Columbia) with Hilary Beard, this book provides strategies and lessons learned.

The documentary filmed two boys–the couple’s son and his best friend– from grade school to Dalton, home, the Clinton-Hill/Fort Green Brooklyn community and various activities. Some viewers scoffed at the parents for treating the children as an experiment for their film. But what emerged was a raw portrait of life inside of two very engaged black families and their efforts to instill the light of learning.  As we witness these little boys become young men, we can see that despite everyone’s best efforts, their potential for success is constantly eroded by forces all around them. Thankfully, today, the boys are both college sophomores.

I commend this book for the quality of its research, analysis and accessible writing. This is the first “how to” book on raising black boys that I ever read. I suspect that some parents and caretakers will wish they had read it before raising their grown sons. Not many parents can film their children’s daily lives to create a documentary. But these parents did.  They did us a favor. This was another wake-up call!  Teachers, we must not give up on black students! Black parents and community, we must continue our vigilance! If we take a pass on our son’s education, the most likely place for black boys with no grounding in family, education or positive community, is the penal system, according to most experts. Click here for book excerpt.

Coming to the Table

Watch the Episode here:

503 Coming to The Table.mpeg-2-Apple TV from Toni Williams on Vimeo.

I was honored to co-produce an edition of the TV show Brooklyn Savvy with Toni Williams, host & executive producer, for a segment called “Coming to the Table.” The title is taken from the name of an organization that I am very passionate about. I serve as one of the coordinators of the group’s local chapter. The program addressed genealogy, race relations, slavery and white privilege with candid conversations. Invited guests included colleagues from Coming to the Table (CTTT) – NYC chapter, Elizabeth Sturgess-Llerena, Julie Finch; Mitchell Woo, Hunter College/CUNY faculty, and specialist on identity, race and Asian American studies; and Denise Arbesu, the show’s regular co-host.

Sturgess-Llerena, a NYC schoolteacher, is a descendant of the DeWolf family, the nation’s largest slave-traders and founders of Brown University. She co-directed her family documentary “Traces of the Trade: A Story From the Deep North,” created and produced by her cousin Katrina Browne. Julie Finch, a Quaker from Maine, recently discovered her family’s Southern roots from old family letters that mentioned the children that they had enslaved. Julie has accused her ancestors of “rape” of the enslaved women that her family owned. She said that she also made the names available to genealogy organizations and is considering how to reach out to her linked African American ancestors.

A racially diverse group, CTTT members are descendants of enslavers and enslaved. As a mixed-heritage person, I identify as a descendant of both groups. Training and deep dialogue in a safe place is a hallmark of the organization’s model for reconciliation and healing. CTTT believes that Americans need to and should be able to talk about race in a safe way without fear, guilt, shame or ridicule.

The white guests on this Brooklyn Savvy TV show talked about discovering enslaved men, women and children in their own families through genealogy research. They shared their shock about their family history. They were also very clear-headed about their “mis-education” by the American public school system and society in general. Do you recall how you were taught about slavery?

The white guests explained what is meant by the term “white privilege,” a major focus of the show. They also listed some basic privileges that white people and light-skinned people of various ethnicity can enjoy simply based on the color of their skin. Woo reflected about a historic “divide and conquer” mentality that created “disconnects” between various racial groups and opportunities. This show is definitely a must see!

Coming to the Table (CTTT) is a national organization with chapters across the nation that believes that America needs to heal from racism caused as a result of centuries of enslavement of Africans and genocide of Native Americans.

Brooklyn Savvy airs at 8 am on Sundays on Channel 25 and Cablevision (Ch 22). You can also tune into Brooklyn Savvy on NYC.gov for additional provocative conversations.

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South Africa’s Freedom Day: April 27

Members of the South Africa Consulate General Office-NYC pose at Marriott Marquis event.

This year, April 27 marked the 18th anniversary of South Africa’s Freedom Day, a commemoration of the country’s first democratic elections. It was in 1994 when all South Africans could vote for the first time in 300 years. After release from prison, Nelson Mandela was elected president as a result of that election. The whole world rejoiced Africa’s own Civil Rights Movement. Memories from that special day are still vivid for some.

Boboti, a delicious South African meat pie was served at the festive occasion at the Marriott Marquis.

“Every Freedom Day, I reflect on that day. I was an activist and attended rallies with Bishop Tutu. We waited in lines for hours and days just to cast a single voting ballot. It is still a struggle. But 100% of our people voted! That day was magical and historic!” said Verna Marthinus of Tolani Restaurant, on the upper West side. Tolani, which means ‘Too good!’ along with other New York South African restaurants, like Madiba, New York’s oldest South African restaurant in Brooklyn’s Fort Green, held special toasts of Pinotage South African wine and Droewors, a  flavorful beef jerky, to honor the occasion.

Traditional songs were featured at the NYC Freedom Day event.

The joyful day was a national celebration in South African communities worldwide, especially in New York with dance parties, drumming events, film screenings, and family and community gatherings. The largest NYC celebration, sponsored by the South Africa Consulate General in New York City, was held at Riverbank State Park and at the New York Marriott Marquis.

The room was packed at Marriott Marquis to celebrate South Africa Freedom Day.

Uncle Warren’s Lynching

I knew about the lynching of my great, great grand uncle in Ocean Springs, Mississippi for many years. It was a family secret that I learned about almost by accident. After seeing photos of a battered, distorted, slain face of Emmett Till in Jet Magazine, I asked my father if anything like that had happened in our family. I was shocked when he said calmly yet gently: ‘Yes.’ He said that his grandfather’s brother, Warren Stuart was lynched in 1901. That’s it. No discussion. I got the impression that I dare not ask another question. I later learned that Uncle Warren was a milkman in our family’s dairy and animal husbandry business. Elders described him as ‘cheerful, kind, hard-working, handsome and strong.’ The Stuarts were, by all accounts, a prosperous African American family, the first generation out of slavery. But some years after the lynching, my family abandoned everything and made their ‘escape’ from the South to Harlem. They never looked back. Unlike most Southern families who returned ‘home’ for summers and holidays, we never went back.

I tucked away the lynching in the back of my mind for years until I mentioned it to my new young cousins Monique and Dionne, who found me through a genealogy search. They sent me shocking newspaper clippings. It was the first time that I read about the lynching details as published in Southern, Midwestern and even Trenton, New Jersey newspapers. I noticed that some of the articles changed my uncle’s name and age from Warrant Stuart to Warren Matthews, from 30 to 80 years old! Also the accuser’s name and age changed in each re-telling from 13 year-old White girl to a 26 year-old woman Rosaline or Ethel Fountaine or Fentian. Re-publishing lynching incidents was very popular back then because it served to flaunt White Supremacy and racism and further terrorize and humiliate the entire African American community. The lurid details of my dear Uncle Warren’s lynching still sounds as disturbing today as a century ago:

             Negro Fiend Lynched by Mississippi Mob…Orderly Lynching at Ocean Springs.

            Negro Brute…was dragged about a mile back to town and hanged. Everything was done in an orderly, humane manner…before execution.  –(Alabama newspaper, 1901)

Some papers like the New Orleans Daily urged the public to join in an orgy of vigilante vengeance:

         Ocean Springs Citizens Take Swift Vengeance!

        Warren Stuart, a Negro who Attempted to Assault Miss Ethel Fountaine Strung Up. His Body Riddled with Bullets…Negro        Taken from Court Offices by a Mob of about One Hundred and Fifty Determined Men. Begs Piteously for His Life. –(New Orleans Sunday Daily, February 3, 1901).

The Body of Negro Warren Stuart (Matthews) Taken by Relatives…  the Negro who was lynched last night was found this morning hanging from the broken limb of a persimmon tree beside the country road…The verdict was that the death was due to strangulation and gunshot wounds. The body was taken in charge by the man’s relatives.

–(New Orleans, 1901)

One of the persons described as the “man’s relatives,” who took his body home was my great, great grandfather, Alfred Burton Stuart aka Papau. These events happened over a century ago, and my family never discussed them, not even my magnificent grandmother, Madame Tempy Stuart-Smith who, according to other relatives, was a witness. And while todayI can only imagine the past through old clippings, photographs and stories, I am haunted nonetheless by Warren Stuart’s pain, his piteous cries for mercy, and my family’s impotence. Without hope of justice my great, great grandfather was forced to carry home and bury his only brother, and keep silent.

Like most of us, I have no direct experience with anything like my uncle’s lynching. Yet the details enraged me to the point that I’ve considered confronting the descendants of Miss Ethel Fontaine, the woman who falsely accused my great grand uncle and everyone involved. This was a ‘community crime.’ Why should I honor a code of silence?  I continue to research the descendants of the accuser and that of the sheriff, judge and some townspeople. Why? Because I still don’t know the whole story. Maybe Rosalie was put up to it. Maybe one descendant felt remorse and desires dialogue. Could I overturn the case and clear my uncle’s name? Should my family seek reparations? What might I gain from my search? Probably nothing. But it would be an action to counter the silence, fear and shame that is a legacy of those years. What comforts me is knowing that some people in our nation are willing to acknowledge and take responsibility for this unfortunate era of our past by taking positive steps to heal its wounds.

I was asked what would be a healing metaphor that could help me and others empathize with my feelings of anger and sadness about how this experience touched me.  I chose two musical metaphors Strange Fruit, sung by Billy Holiday.  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YbcZstt8ACY). The haunting lyrics were actually a banned poem written in the 1930s by Abel Meeropol, (aka Lewis Allan) a Jewish schoolteacher and Bronx labor organizer who was disturbed by a photograph of a lynched Negro. Meeropol and his wife Anne are also notable because they adopted Robert and Michael Rosenberg, the orphaned children of the executed communists Julius and Ethel Rosenberg.

The other song is Lift Every Voice, aka the National Negro Anthem, (http://www.c-spanvideo.org/program/162576-1) by James Weldon Johnson. This is a song that my paternal grandmother, Madame Tempy Stewart Smith, a noted Harlem music teacher, and lynching eyewitness, made a tradition of directing her pupils to lead the audience in singing at recitals.

Today, very few in my family will talk about slavery, lynching, segregation, racism, Jim Crow, Civil Rights and related topics.  They said: “Forget the past…” So, I was encouraged to join Coming to the Table (CTTT- www.comingtothetable.org), a dialogue group that responds to the harms of slavery for both the descendants of the slaves and enslavers. I was directed to a CTTT member who acknowledged that she was a descendant of an enslaver and Klansman. She continues to assist me in my search to find out more about the case, people and town. CTTT also plans to establish dialogue groups for members who experienced lynchings in their families—both descendant of lynchers and the lynched.

As an African American descendant of a slave and enslavers, I felt a healing balm from the White CTTT members who teach about White Privilege and who believe that they are ‘accountable.’ They courageously advocate that schools teach American history with a focus on slavery’s legacy, aftermath and post traumatic slave syndrome. The strength of CTTT is the open dialogue and ongoing conversations between White and Black people. I believe that groups like CTTT are a catalyst for change in America. I do believe as we work and talk together that a true platform can be built to heal America. We are far from being a post-racial nation